Part and parcel to any relationship is communication—sending and receiving, talking and listening. Our relationships with God are no different. It's of no debate that God wants to hear our voices. But Jesus revealed that God also wants us to hear His. "My sheep hear My voice," He assured (John 10:27). Unless you live on a farm, most today are far removed from what it actually means for sheep to know their master's voice. In a recent online Bible study, I played a short video clip that profoundly illustrates what happens.
Part and parcel to any relationship is communication—sending and receiving, talking and listening.
Our relationships with God are no different. It’s of no debate that God wants to hear our voices. But Jesus revealed that God also wants us to hear His. “My sheep hear My voice,” He assured (John 10:27).
‘My Sheep Hear My Voice’
Unless you live on a farm, most today are far removed from what it actually means for sheep to know their master’s voice. In a recent online Bible study, I played a short video clip that profoundly illustrates what happens.
If you watched the video, you saw that the strangers couldn’t even provoke the sheep to look at them. They were completely ignored! When the master called out, however, the sheep’s ears perked up, and they all began to draw near.
Hearing God Like Sheep
Hearing like sheep is the image Jesus gave for how God’s voice is supposed to be recognized in our lives too. We should be so in tune with Him that we’re able to easily discern what’s His voice and what’s not. And when we hear Him call to us, we should trust Him so completely that we quickly follow.
Hearing God is the bedrock of our spiritual authority and power.
When we know God’s voice, we know where to go, what to do and what not to listen to. Hearing God is paramount to an intimate relationship with Him, and all that comes with it: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, meekness and self-control (Gal. 5:22–23). It’s also the bedrock of our spiritual authority and power. That’s why one of the enemy’s chief goals is to keep you from hearing God. And to do so, he sets up barriers. The biggest of these is the belief that “God can’t love me.” Let’s explore this now.
The No. 1 Barrier Belief to Hearing
For some, the notion that “God can’t love me” stems from past sins they’ve never been able to forgive themselves of. Accordingly, it’s thought, “if I can’t forgive myself, then God definitely can’t either.” For others, present sins and struggles make them feel shamed, condemned or too dirty to be in God’s presence.
Yet for others, the inability to uphold some religious standard (such as an ideal amount of Bible reading or giving) brings about intense feelings of disapproval. Whatever the case, the fear of letting God down in some way often keeps people hiding from God, rather than communing with Him.
How to Break Down the Barrier
The only way to break down the barrier of the belief that “God can’t love me” is with truth. So here’s some truth: As a Christian, the power of sin to separate you from God is destroyed; Jesus crucified it on the cross. This is why Paul implores to “consider yourselves to be dead to sin” (Rom. 6:11a).
The devil knows this, which is why his only recourse is to follow up failures with accusations that deceive you into believing God is mad at you. That’s all he’s got!
Your access to God is dependent upon Jesus’ finished work, not upon anything you do or fail to do.
Of course, we shouldn’t want to sin, but when we do, it’s important that we instantly remember that God still loves us. In fact, the moment just after a failure is when we need to go to God all the more. This vulnerable time is the most critical time to hear His forgiveness and what He says to help avoid falling in the future.
Remember: As a believer, your access to God is dependent upon Jesus’ finished work, not upon anything you do or fail to do. When the enemy uses reminders of sin and struggle to keep you from drawing near to God, remind yourself that you are declared “the righteousness of God” and loved by Him in a way that nobody and no battle can separate (see 2 Cor 5:21; Rom. 8:38).
It's a question I frequently hear. It's one I've asked. And maybe it's one you've asked, too. It's, "God, why did You give this to me?" This can be any number of issues from emotional or psychological struggles, to symptoms or sicknesses, disabilities or disasters. When we struggle for so long, the tendency is to eventually blame God, which is exactly what the enemy wants. The devil's goal with a question like this is to take himself out of the limelight in order to make God seem to be the author of all evil. He does this to erode your confidence in God's goodness, and ultimately, your relationship and intimacy with Him.
We all feel it—this world is inundated with noise. Both on and off the Internet, the countless voices that vie for our attention make it a challenge to know what to let in versus what to shut out. Consequently, this chaos of the natural world often makes it even more difficult to discern the voices in the spiritual world. It's no wonder well-meaning people frequently confuse the enemy as God.
Bad behaviors, bad habits, bad moods—most of us try to beat anything bad in our lives with modified actions. We reprimand ourselves, "I should quit this/stop that," then set out to follow some regimen of dos and don'ts. The problem is, when you try to modify behavior, victory is short lived. Most of us experience this when we attempt a strict diet. Though you might succeed for a while, the more you focus on what you shouldn't eat, the more it consumes your mind until you fall to it again. The reason this happens is spiritual: "The law gives sin its power" (1 Corinthians 15:56, NLT).